Out Of Character
absolutely no bigotry. this includes (but is not limited to) homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, or general racism. i decide what falls into these categories, based on my own personal comfort, not you. if i say that i am no longer comfortable with engaging with you (based on the aforementioned list), then that is simply that, and not up for debate.
no is a complete sentence.
i am an old (agender) man. i'm 30+ as of writing this, and therefore have absolutely no desire to interact with minors. if your character is a minor, interaction may be possible with strict guidelines, which will be adhered to.
i don't use mods. i'm too old and too tired to figure it out. i use descriptive writing as much as possible, and general theatre of the mind, to explain Sol's appearance. if that's a dealbreaker, then i suggest we simply avoid interaction for both our sakes.
in the same vein: i go outside canon. a lot. i'm unapologetic about it, and don't really have the energy to debate purists about what is and isn't realistic for my character. i have been roleplaying for 24 years, i do it for fun and only for fun. if you're unable to vibe with this, then please see the above point.
i tend to write darker themes, both in-and-out of roleplay. i am open to a more mature plotline with your character, but it must be discussed at length beforehand, and both parties must consent to everything involved.
Sóllilja is not exclusive to anyone, at this time. however, i am also not open to publicly and graphically ERPing with every under-dressed Miqo'te who comes sprinting out of The Quicksand. any romantic or sexual relationships will need to be with someone who i (the player) knows well. and these relationships will need to be built naturally over time. she's a lady with standards, and i'm too antisocial to deal with gooners.